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2025-12-30-gary-ida-education-corruption-relationship-wisdom
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date:
2025-12-30
related people:
["gary-sheng","ida-villavicencio"]
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Phone Call

Call Summary: Education Corruption and Relationship Wisdom

Overview

Late evening call where Ida shared insights on education system corruption (charter school kickbacks, foreign ownership patterns) and extensive relationship wisdom including her 30-year marriage testimony. Ida also introduced the idea of connecting Gary with a Christian nurse practitioner named Felicia. Gary expressed confidence that 2026 will be the year he meets his wife.

Key Topics Discussed

Ida's Concussion

  • Suffered a head injury from a fall, experiencing confusion, nausea, and dizziness
  • Has had concussions before and recognized the symptoms
  • Framing: "Devil's busy trying to sabotage Warrior"
  • Ida's response: "I'm like bruised and battered and war torn and I still get up"

Charter School Corruption

  • Board Member Kickbacks: Board members take bribes to vote for insurance companies, vendors who then get multi-million dollar contracts
  • No Education Requirements: "Board members don't have to have any kind of education. They can just be... not even maybe have a high school diploma"
  • Foreign Ownership Pattern: "A lot of the leaders, the owners and the principals that they hire are not from the United States... could be Middle Eastern or could be other countries"
  • No Certification Requirements: "Charter schools don't require that their people be certified. They don't have the same regulations"
  • Pure Business Model: "It's 100% business. They could care less about educating kids in the United States. It's just like McDonald's"
  • IDEA Public Schools Example: Founder "started off in a good way" with Teach for America roots but "got greedy and started paying himself like a million dollars a year"

Governor Abbott and Islamic Schools

  • Abbott blocked an organization wanting to create Islamic schools in Texas
  • Reason given: "The organization that funds them supposedly connects to a terrorist organization"
  • Ida's analysis: Foreign entities shouldn't have stake in "one of the most important things in our country, which is our education"

Education Funding Inefficiency

  • Texas receives ~$10K per student, $30K+ for special ed
  • Additional funding for mental health, technology
  • "It doesn't make sense how we're almost 50 in the United States kids, when there are countries that have hardly any resources and they're doing better in reading"
  • School-to-prison pipeline connected to second-grade reading levels

"Bottom of the Barrel" Philosophy

Ida's core ministry philosophy for at-risk youth:

  • "The bottom of the barrel festers and it infects the whole thing... The bottom of the barrel kids will decide the society"
  • "What can I do to help make those bottom of the barrel see themselves in a way, in their truth, in the way God sees them"
  • "You're not what they said to you, you're not what has happened to you, you didn't deserve what happened to you. They were wrong"

AI Concerns

  • Ida shared articles about AI's psychological dangers
  • Carlos's response: "It just follows your lead, Mom. So if you're a schizophrenic psychopath that's talking to AI, then yeah"
  • Gary's framing: Environments that "don't lead them to be acting in the image of God"

Potential Romantic Introduction

  • Ida introduced the idea of connecting Gary with Felicia Nava, her nurse practitioner
  • 32 years old, looks young ("she looks like she's 22")
  • Christian, doesn't drink/smoke, "doesn't go to clubs, doesn't go to bars"
  • Hispanic but prefers non-Hispanic men ("Hispanic man can be extremely macho")
  • Works constantly, wants to lose weight before sharing photos
  • Ida: "I'm showing your picture to all these single Christian ladies"

Gary's Marriage Timeline

  • Gary: "I believe 2026 is the year I meet my wife"
  • Confirmed he wants a family with kids
  • Ida: "Then it'll probably be a Latina... Hispanics... usually do want kids"

Christian Relationship Dynamics

On Faithfulness:

  • Ida: "I've been married almost 30 years and have not had that desire even when Jesus and I were not on the same page"
  • "Being faithful to me was a source of pride for me and integrity and character"
  • "It's not hard to not be tempted by things if you know who you are because you're full"
  • "People who fall into those traps are empty and feel alone or feel lonely or feel unseen"

On Gender Roles:

  • Ida serves her husband: "He sits down and I serve him, and I pick up after him"
  • Her mother served her father "kindly, and lovingly"
  • Father's rule: "If we didn't learn how to cook, we would never get married"
  • Critique of modern women: "They want it all, but they're not willing to do anything"

On Macho Culture:

  • Definition: "The man's in charge and you gotta run things by him"
  • Ida's ideal: The "Brawny man" lumberjack - "He could build a house. He could build a fire"
  • Jesus (her husband): "He's a survivalist. He could make something out of nothing"
  • Gary's humorous response: "I can type some stuff on a keyboard. That's what I can do"

Dating Pool Observations

  • "There's a ton of Christian women and not very many Christian men"
  • Men's conferences fill the Alamo Dome but people aren't pairing up
  • Theory: Men have given up because women want everything material but offer nothing in return
  • Observation: All single men at her school (30s-50s) don't want relationships

Key Quotes

  • "I'm like bruised and battered and war torn and I still get up. That's the good part."
  • "The bottom of the barrel festers and it infects the whole thing."
  • "It's not hard to not be tempted by things if you know who you are because you're full."
  • "I believe 2026 is the year I meet my wife."

Action Items / Takeaways

  • Ida recovering from concussion, needs rest
  • Felicia introduction pending her updated photos (January timeline)
  • Gary believes 2026 is his marriage year
  • Discussion validated investigation into education corruption as potential content/exposure opportunity